Sign # 1 - He says it
Ok ladies here is the most obvious sign that a man is in love with you, he tells you that he is. Once he says it once, you don't have to hound him to say it daily. To some men saying `I love you' is not something to be taken lightly so they aren't going to say it and the end of every telephone conversation because they want it to mean something. When a man is crazy about you, he will pick the right moment to tell you. Read his non-verbal cues that let you know that he is in love with you even if he doesn't say he is all the time. Some of the non-verbal cues that show he is in love include offering to do something special for you, showing you that he longs to take care of you, and giving up his free time to devote to you.

Sign # 2 - His actions around others
Another big indicator that a man is in love with you is the way he treats you in front of his friends, co-workers, and family members. A man that is in love will be proud to show you off to everyone. He will pay attention to you, though it may be differently from the attention you get one-on-one. However, if he is reaching to grab your arm or hand, it's a big indicator that he enjoys having you as part of his life. When you are around his friends, find out what he says about you. If they confirm that he talks about you in a loving manner, you know he is in love.

Sign # 3 - Contact
A man that is in love wants to be with you. He will call you, text you, and spend time with you. He may still have plans with his friends but if he is in love, you will probably get a phone call or text message sometime throughout the day. Men that are in love want to be close to the woman they care for and he will do something to try and contact you.

Sign # 4 - Interest
When a man is in love with a woman, he wants to talk. He will have a strong desire to learn about you. This may make you feel like you are on a job interview sometimes because he may ask question after question. This is just part of him expressing that he deeply cares for you and he wants to learn about things that you have experienced. He wants to be a part of your life and the more he can learn about your job, your family, and other things the easier it will be for him to stay in the loop. A man that is in love will also drop everything if you call him with a problem like a flat tire. Watch for this as an indicator to see if he is in love with you.

Sign # 5 - Big gestures
Finally, when a man is in love, he will do big gestures once and awhile to show it. This could mean he wants to take you out to a nice restaurant or he buys you an expensive gift. It can also be something simpler like cooking you dinner or surprising you with a picnic in the park for your lunch hour. A man that is in love will go out of his way to make you happy and to find a way to surprise you. Sending you flowers at work or emailing a nice love poem is another sign that he is head over heels in love.