Now, if you have never played sex games before, you might feel a little silly at the beginning. That's normal. Don't worry. Besides, even if you and your partner end up giggling through the whole thing, remember that sex should be fun. Don't take it quite so seriously! Sex should be exciting, enticing, and enjoyable, which is why you play sex games in the first place.

The first category of sex games that you can play are role playing games. In these games, you both take on different personalities and act out a scene or two or three with those personalities. It can actually be really liberating to be someone else for a little while-and can help both of you feel more free in the bedroom. Both you and your spouse can think of situations that you've always wanted to act out, or that you've fantasized about. If you think that you've never fantasized, think a little harder. Maybe the two of you are complete strangers, and you meet each other walking home from school, and strike up a conversation. There is, of course, the old stand-by of doctor/nurse and patient. Or maybe you would prefer to take it back in time-to aristocratic England, or something along those lines. Once you choose your roles, try hard not to break character, no matter how silly it may seem. With practice, you'll begin to feel more comfortable with role playing. And don't forget to take turns choosing a scenario. This is about both of you, so you should each have the opportunity to indulge your particular fantasies.

The second category is related to the first. In this one, each of you take turns describing your ultimate sexual fantasies. After you tell, then the two of you act it out. This could involve role playing, or it could involve something else that secretly you've always wanted to do, but you've always been too shy or embarrassed to ask for it. Chances are, your spouse is perfectly fine trying it out, and maybe has always wanted to try it or something similar.

The third sex game that you can try to improve your love life needs nothing more than a blindfold and some massage, or even baby, oil. Blindfold your partner, and then rub oil into particular body parts-any body part. Take your spouse's hand, and have them try to guess what they are touching. This sex game can incredibly stimulating and exciting for both of you. When you're done, switch places. This game can also help you get to know and appreciate your spouse's body in an entirely different way.

Ultimately, the key to having fun with healthy sex games that improve your love life is open communication about what you want, and what you're not comfortable with. Never agree to do something that you don't want to, but at the same time be open to new possibilities. You might feel a bit silly at the beginning, but becoming less inhibited can do nothing but improve your love life and help both you and your spouse feel more comfortable with each other and more satisfied.