Communication Articles


Spouses yet strangers

manlookingoverwomanssholder32347380.jpgIt is possible to live in the same house with someone, be married to them, for years even, and barely know them. Often in marriages, too often by all accounts, people grow apart as they have children, take on new responsibilities, etc. It is easy to fall in to routines that involve perfunctory conversations, and occasional checking in sex, but that lack the real bonding and close knit feelings of not being able to live without the person. If you are spouses, but in many way strangers, you are not alone, but there are things you can do to change things, and improve your relationship. First you have to accept and acknowledge the problem exists, then work to fix it.

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Simple things matter in love and marriage

missingpuzzlepiece19378437.jpgThe idea that the simple things matter in love and marriage is in no way new, novel, or unheard of. However, it is too often unpracticed. As people settle into marriages, and grow more comfortable with their spouse, the little things are often some of the first things to go. Happy love lives, and happy marriages take a lot of things, but one such thing is that the small gestures are not forgotten.

"Simple things matter in love and marriage" »

Dealing with a secretive spouse

lying36819210.jpgEveryone communicates differently. However, it can be difficult to be in a relationship if you are a sharer, and your spouse is not. Some people simply prefer to keep things to themselves, however, this can be misconstrued as being secretive. So, what do you do if you are in a relationship with a "secretive spouse"?

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When you like someone at work

watercoolertalk10053456.jpgThere is a taboo on office romances. While there are a number of television shows that depict successful, and not so successful office romances, most people know that you should not date someone you work with. The most obvious reason is that you will have to see them every day, so if it goes bad, then you are in for a world of frustration. So, with this in mind, what can you do when you like someone at work?

"When you like someone at work" »

Telling someone you love you are disappointed in them

onsteps37701401.jpgEvery now and then someone does something that just really hits you in a bad way. You may experience the sense of frustration and despair when someone you love disappoints you. Disappointment is a harder emotion to manage than most, much more difficult than anger or happiness. It often leaves you wondering how to respond. The fact is, people are going to disappoint you to one degree or another during your life. If you want to avoid this, you are out of luck. The key is knowing how to let them know you are disappointed, why you are, and how you intend to move forward. The following are a few guidelines for telling someone you love you are disappointed in them.

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Ignoring problems doesn't keep relationships strong

manrelaxingatdesk30846571.jpgEveryone has had a relationship with someone, a parent, a lover, a neighbor, a friend. And, everyone is familiar with the fact that there can be problems in relationships. What most people do not realize is that by ignoring problems or feelings, etc. you are not preserving the relationship, but ruining it. The most common example of this is when two people are friends, and one starts to like the other person.

"Ignoring problems doesn't keep relationships strong" »

He doesn't call

teen39173427.jpgIf you go out with someone, have a great time, and they say they will call, then they don't, what can you do? How do you feel? Do you take them at their word and make an effort, or do you take a hint, and move forward? It can be frustrating to have a great time, and get excited about someone, and then get the brush off. You can't help but ask yourself if they maybe lost your number, or just got busy. So, what can you do?

"He doesn't call" »

Can't figure out your type

embrace19167388.jpgMost people have a type that they tend to go for, short, tall, dark haired, or light, athletic or academic, funny, or brooding, etc. So, what happens if you can't figure out your type? Most people who can't seem to figure out their type have a problem with relationships not lasting long. While it is great to like a little of everything, generally, your preferences will lead you to a certain type of person, both physically and mentally. So, if you do not know what that type is, it can be hard to find lasting relationships.

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Missing an ex

olderwomanonphone32013024.jpgIt can be difficult to be in a relationship with someone if you can't stop thinking about an ex. It is common to miss an ex, especially if you are nearing a significant date, or experience something that reminds you of them, or a memory you shared. Here are a few tips for dealing when you miss an ex:

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Love yourself more than me

engagement31095490.jpgHave you ever been a relationship where it seemed like the person loved himself or herself more than they love you? This is not uncommon. People are, in general, selfish beings and want to do what is best for them, without a lot of thought to what is best for those around them. If they are hungry, they want to eat, if they are tired, they want to sleep. If they need new clothes, they want to use money to buy them, rather than something else. The list goes on. If you find yourself in a relationship where selfishness seems to be the defining characteristic, consider the following:


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Listening to a friend's advice

womanthinkingandsmiling33030170.jpgFriends often give advice to other friends, but the question is whether or not you should listen to the advice that they offer? The answer is usually no, and here are the reasons why.

Friends want what is best for you and what will make you happy. This might seem like a reason to listen to their advice, but the fact is, often good advice and what makes someone instantly happy are not going to go together well. For example, a girl may like a guy that is bad news.

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Why relationships have boundaries

togetherness19167404.jpgEvery relationship has it's limitations. There are certain things you know you can do and certain things you know you cannot. Boundaries are necessary in a relationship as they do help you to maintain a stronger love life and connection. You won't nag one another or cross the line that can put your lover over the edge. You need to sit down and talk about a few things that are "absolutely not's" and "that's fine" as it allows you to both be yourselves and to avoid having to deal with annoyances and frustrating discussions with your partner. Having boundaries also helps to keep you in check as you won't become obsessive or aggressive. You both deserve to have personal freedom and you need to have a certain level of respect for one another if you want to make the relationship work successfully.

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The different stages of a relationship

gift63819369.jpgAre you in a relationship? If you are just starting one, in the middle of one, or ending one, there are several different stages of a relationship that you need to know about. These simple tips we will provide can help you to avoid boredom in the relationship along with other things that can ruin your relationship and make it challenging for you both to move forward together.

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Regaining trust in a relationship

proposal31088624.jpgWhen betrayal occurs in a relationship, it can literally ruin the years it has taken you to build trust and to have a healthy relationship. If something has occurred that has caused the trust to be shaken in the relationship, what can you do work on regaining trust in the relationship? The frustrating part is that it does take years to rebuild trust in a relationship and its not going to be easy either. If you are the partner that broke the trust, you will need to find a way to convince your partner that you are trustworthy again and that you deserve to have a second chance. If you are the partner that was hurt, you will need to learn how to truly forgive them and to determine if you really want to offer them a second chance or not.

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Reclaim the quality time in your relationship

walking41850447.jpgAre you working on strengthening your relationship and to find a way to bring it back to where it used to be? Finding the quality you once had in your relationship can take awhile to bring back and it takes a lot of hard work and effort on your part and on your partner's part as well. It can start with quality time that you spend together by listening to each other and making time for each other. What are some ways you can find the quality time in your relationship again?

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Knowing if you are compatible with your partner

gift36874163.jpgHave you gotten into a relationship with someone you don't really know? There are so many marriages out there that have difficulties working because the two people are not compatible with one another. Compatibility in a marriage will go a long way in making the relationship strong and healthy. If you are just starting to date, how can you find people that you are compatible with? The online dating sites all have great tools that they use to work on compatibility with your partner.

"Knowing if you are compatible with your partner" »

Introducing intimacy into your relationship

flowers37734910.jpgEvery relationship that is built to last needs to have intimacy because it does help to strengthen the bond you and your partner have. It is one of the best ways to let your partner know that you love them and to let them know that you still find them attractive no matter what. Intimacy brings partners together in a different way and it makes them feel deeply connected to them. How can you bring intimacy into your relationship? Here are some great tips that will help you to have intimacy in your relationship:

"Introducing intimacy into your relationship" »

In a new relationship? Tips to make it last.

hug36874067.jpgAre you in a new relationship? How can you make it a strong relationship and to avoid making common mistakes that have plagued your past relationships? This article will offer some insight into a few things you can do to make a relationship last:

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How to deal with a lack of empathy

unsure19166659.jpgThere are so many emotions and things that go into a relationship. If there is lack of empathy, it makes it hard to love the other person and it makes it hard to even offer them respect at times. Many marriages and long term relationships end because of lack of empathy that occurs over time. It is a problem that needs to be addressed in relationships and it comes down to having respect and true love for the other person. Here are some things you need to understand about lack of empathy.

"How to deal with a lack of empathy" »

Getting rid of jealousy

engagement31095490.jpgIt is natural for us to protect and defend the things that we love. When you find yourself lucky enough to be in a healthy relationship, it is natural to fight for it and to have a desire to make it work. However these feelings that can lead us to work hard on a relationship can also hurt us and cause us to become overly jealous and to ruin a good relationship. You need to learn how to manage your feelings of jealousy if you want your relationship to work.

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Be careful about rushing into a relationship

teenrelationship41861339.jpgAs you start out a new relationship, there are a lot of things you need to be careful about because you can rush into it. This can cause you to ruin any chance you had to get started with the relationship correctly and you won't be able to make it last as the other person can get scared off or they may smell your desperation to be in a relationship. There is a certain level of want and desire in any relationship but you need to understand that while you may crave this time with the other person, they are not in the same place that you are. They might want to take it slow and continue dating other people for a little while. Do not take offense to this because they usually just need some time to figure out who they are and that they are making a good decision by jumping into a relationship.

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Appropriate work relationships

handshake32145701.jpgWhile it is nice to get along with coworkers, it is important to know what is appropriate, and what is not when it comes to work relationships. Often people avoid friendships at work for fear of awkwardness, but then hate work as a result. Other times, people go to the opposite side, date coworkers, and befriend them. So which is appropriate?

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When to end a relationship

teens41861269.jpgSometimes relationships go bad, and it can be hard to know when a relationship needs to be ended. The following is a look at some of the signs that your relationship needs to be ended:

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Save my marriage

proposal31088624.jpgSometimes marriages hit rocky patches. It can be hard to get through those spots, but usually it is worth it. When you are not sure if your marriage is worth saving, or how to do it, consider the following:

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Negative person

unsure19166659.jpgBeing in a relationship with someone who is really negative can be a real drain. It can be hard to deal with, can drive other people away, and can leave you wondering what attracted you to that person in the first place. You may find yourself wondering if their negativity is going to influence you negatively, and turn you into a downer too. Here are some tips for dealing with a negative person:

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How to tell your significant other that something is wrong with them

womanangryatphone35813101.jpgRelationships are what make much of life worth living, our loved ones, our friends, even those people we talk to on occasion, or in passing. However, sometimes they can be tricky, and often leave us unsure of what to do. For example, when you are dating or married to someone, and they have something wrong with them, a problem of sorts, how can you tell them about it without rocking the boat too much? It is easy to get annoyed, frustrated, and hurt by someone we are in a relationship with, especially when they point out our flaws. So, is there anyway that you can do the pointing, without the other person getting their feather's ruffled as a result?

"How to tell your significant other that something is wrong with them" »

How to fight without fighting

mantiedup28718953.jpgSometimes in a relationship you just disagree, and thus a fight of sorts ensues. However, there is a distinct difference between working things out so that everyone is happy, and being in a fight with your spouse, family member, or friend. The following is a look at some things you can do to fight (and work through your problems) without fighting:

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How contempt ruins relationships

damagedhouse26811601.jpgContempt in a relationship is something that will ruin it quickly, and often permanently. This is something that should be taken seriously in every kind of relationship, from friendship to marriage. So, what is contempt exactly? By definition, contempt is a lack of respect accompanied by a feeling of intense dislike. While this does not appear to go along with the definition of relationships, it is often how we respond to our partners and friends when we are upset.

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Going to bed angry

bedroom10046585.jpgThe marriage advice, "never go to bed angry" is an old one. However, many people want to know why it matters so much, and whether or not working out your problems, rather than just sleeping on them really helps. Here is a look at you should never go to bed angry:


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Getting along with neighbors

handshake30395603.jpgSometimes your neighbors become much like family. You rely on them on occasion, and you enjoy their company. However, what happens when you get in a tiff with your neighbors? What about when your neighbors overstep their bounds? The fact is, getting along with neighbors is not always easy, and because you have to live with them as neighbors, it can be good to know how to handle things.

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Friendships gone bad

perparingforboxing33338232.jpgSometimes friendships just go bad. There occasionally comes a point when it seems like a friendship is more work then it is worth. Or, that each time you spend time with your "friend" you leave it feeling down, bad about yourself, or like you have had a real energy drain. This is a sign that the friendship is starting to sour, and here are some tips for how to handle it:

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Do you love your husband?

embrace19167388.jpgThere are times in every marriage where you look at your spouse and can't help but ask yourself if you are still in love. Often times, passion goes out the window and is replaced by the stark realities of real life, responsibility, and familial duties. So, how can you decide if your lack of romance, or waning passion is a lack of love, or just a change in love. Consider the following:

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Defensiveness is the kindling for relationship fires

rejecting63314693.jpgIt is common to become defensive when confronted with a relationship problem. However, jumping to defensiveness can greatly damage a relationship. Defensiveness is one of the top problem causers in relationships, and one of the main reasons that the national divorce statistic is so high. When people get defensive, they get extremely emotional, and then, emotion, rather than logic or justice rule, and this creates compounded problems that are very hard to solve.

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Confrontation of cool off?

unsure19166659.jpgIf you and your significant other are having a problem, you have one of two choices. You can confront the situation, and address it head on. Or, you can give yourself a chance to cool off. It can be hard to know which is the best option. Here are some tips for helping you know what to do:

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5 traits of a healthy relationship

engagement31095490.jpgIf you are going to have a relationship with someone, shouldn't it be a healthy one? The following is a list of five traits to a healthy relationship:

1. Respect. Respect in a relationship is a must. With respect you avoid many problems, such as intentionally hurting or frustrating the person, etc. Respect for one another, and their ability to think, have real opinions, and are someone of worth. Basically, if you have respect in a relationship, both parties are going to feel valued simply because they are people. Respect also lends itself well to improved communication, listening skills, love and more. So, the fundamental aspect of a healthy relationship is respect for one another.

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Tips for asking someone out on a date

manandwomanatendofhall32810136.jpgAsking someone out on a date can take a lot of courage, especially if the person doing the asking really likes the other individual. But even though it can be difficult, asking someone out on a date is not an impossible task. And once it is done, the date and possible relationship to follow can be terrific and well worth it. Here are a few tips for how to ask someone on a date.

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Social networking impact on relationships

communication23689951.jpgDoesn't it seem like almost everyone has a Facebook, MySpace, or Twitter account these days? If not one of those, then at least some sort of social networking account, even if it is more business oriented like LinkedIn. The fact is, most people do. So, let's take a look at some of the ways that social networking is impacting their relationships, both for good and bad.

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Seeing more than someone's faults

friends30718454.jpgSeeing someone's faults is easy. Name a person and I can tell you in a matter of minutes the things about them that I do not like. We all have this canny ability to recognize all of the bad in people, however, this article focuses on how to see more than someone's faults, and start seeing their good qualities and attributes as well. The following are five things you can do see more in someone than their faults:

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Racist remarks in relationships

womanshusing10041531.jpgWhen you are in a relationship you tend to go one of two ways: you either hold back because you want to impress, and keep things good, or you say too much because you feel comfortable with the person. However, regardless of what way you go, what happens with the person you are in a relationship with makes a racist remark? Consider the following:

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I love you more than a friend

walking41850447.jpgWhen you love someone more than a friend, but they think you are just friends, it can be scary and tricky knowing what to do. Sometimes it is best to make a move and see what happens, and in other cases, it can be a total shut down. The following is a look at how to know if you should let someone know you love them more than friends.

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How to salvage friendships after feelings are hurt

mulitracial39158659.jpgSometimes in friendships we say or do things that hurt our friends' feelings. Disagreements, arguments, petty conversations, gossip, jealousy, and a number of other problems can cause a rift in a friendship. Without taking steps to repair it, that rift can lead to ruined friendships. Salvaging friendships after hurt feelings is not always an easy process, but can be done using the following five tips.

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How to make a relationship work

gift36874163.jpgRelationships are wonderful things, but they are also hard too. For a relationship to work and be a long-term relationship, it is important for each member of the couple to do their part. This article discusses several tips for how to make a relationship work.

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Great places to meet people

friends26667557.jpgOne of the hardest parts about dating is actually meeting someone that a person would want to date. When a person is in their teens, or early adulthood, they seem to have more chances to meet people but as they get older there seem to be less and less opportunities for a person to meet someone they would like to ask out on a date. This article discusses some good places where a person may meet someone.

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Don't let your relationship wane

family30327547.jpgWhen you first meet someone it is easy to have a lot of passion, and feel a lot of good emotion. The experiences with that person are all new, so you get a whole bunch of firsts with that person. However, after you have been with the person for a while, the passion can start to die down, and the relationship may start to wane. The following is a look at how to keep the spark and fun in a relationship after the initial passion starts to die down:

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Dealing with living situation problems

oldercouple32016159.jpgOften times the hardest relationship problems to deal with are those that involve the people we live with. A roommate can be especially difficult to talk to about a problem because you may have no other relationship with them other than living in the same house. Many people do not know their roommates before they move in, and from there, many do little to get to know their roommates. So, what should you do if you have a problem with one of them? Try the following advice.

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Dating a bad driver

teenrelationship41861339.jpgDating is a lot of fun, but sometimes it can be hard to deal with some of the characteristics of the person you are dating. For example, if someone you are dating is a bad driver, it can be a scary thought to go on a date with them. So, if you really like them, what can you do?

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Commitment

proposal31088624.jpgCommitment is a scary word to some people. Sometimes a person is not ready for commitment in a relationship, sometimes they just do not seem to understand exactly what a committed relationship is. This article discusses what commitment is, what a committed relationship is, and a few of the specifics about a committed relationship.

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Being a trustworthy friend

friends26651528.jpgOne of the key elements of any relationship is trust. Trust is essential for the relationship to grow and become strong. Without trust, most relationships wither and die. So, how can you be a trustworthy friend, and thus improve your relationships? Try the following considerations:

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When your family relationships are threatened due to resentment

womanangryatphone35813101.jpgWhen it comes to resentment that you hold towards other people or that other people hold toward us, there are some main causes of resentment. The main causes of resentment always revolve around our ego and our minds attempt to protect ourselves from being hurt. Resentment relates to the ego because when our ego gets hurt the first thing we think about is defending ourselves to help preserve ourselves. Resentment always becomes a bigger problem than we expected, especially when it starts to threaten your family relationships.

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The Work Love Triangle

lawyer37472724.jpgRelationships in the workplace can disrupt the flow of work. If you just broke up with that guy from two rows over, there's likely to be some drama. It's better if you keep your workplace relationships strictly professional. You can be friends with people, but don't take it beyond friendship. Here's how to keep work relationships on a business level:

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The Significance of Pillow Talk

oldercouple32016159.jpgMarriage is difficult. Divorce is on the rise and you may feel like your relationship is teetering on the edge of the abyss. There are lots of things that can help your relationship find stable ground and become the strong, loving relationship it was when you first started out, but we'll only discuss one of them: pillow talk. Pillow talk, talking that goes on between a couple in a private space usually before bed, is important in sustaining a marriage relationship.

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The Online Friendship Revolution

womanonlaptop30719432.jpgMost people like to keep in touch with their friends on a regular basis, especially those that don't live nearby, but if you are like most people, your phone bill probably can't afford a conversation with your best friend living three states away everyday. Thanks to the advent of the internet keeping in touch with friends, especially those who don't live close at hand, is easy and inexpensive. Here are four ways to keep in touch with friends through the internet.

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Relating to people of other religion or culture

handshakeoverflags32166713.jpgWith hundreds of different religions and cultures throughout the world, chances are you know many people who do not have the same religion or culture as you.

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Moving past grudges in relationships

handshake30395603.jpgThe only surefire way to move past grudges in a relationship is to forgive your significant other for what has happened. Many people think that in order to forgive people you are going to have to forget what they did, but that is not true. Once your anger has reached a grudge status you need to work on forgiving that person, otherwise you can ruin your relationship.

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Military relationships, how to keep them good

flags7360237.jpgMilitary relationships, like all relationships, experience ups and downs. This is especially true during a deployment, which may take a loved one across the world for months at a time.

With many deployments lasting a year or more, keeping your military relationships good can be a challenge. However, it is still possible. The following are a few things you can do to keep your military relationships good, even when your spouse or loved one is away:

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Memories can be a great foundation for relationships

party60488463.jpgWhen it comes to building relationships, there are a lot of things you can start a relationship with--common interests, hobbies, or shared experiences and time spent together are just a few.

Memories can also be a great foundation for relationships, for a number of reasons, including:

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Making New Friends with Social Networking

womanwithheadset30343063.jpgMaking friends in the real world can be hard. There are so many factors that influence whether you'll actually be friends or not, that it is hard to make an invaluable friend out of a friendly acquaintance. Trust, vulnerability, and a certain level of intimate conversation are all required in the real world when making friends. The virtual world, on the other hand, can be an easier tool to use to make friends and get to know someone without getting too vulnerable before you're ready. Using online social networks like facebook, twitter, and myspace (as well as paid social networks like online dating services) to make new friends can be quite easy.

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Maintaining family relationships that are long distance

cellphone30365260.jpgNowadays, it is more and more common for jobs, school, or other opportunities and reasons to take a family across the country or even world, leaving the rest of the extended family behind.

Maintaining family relationships that are long distance used to be difficult with just letters and expensive long-distance phone calls. However, there are many things you can do now to make sure your family relationships stay strong, even if you are separated by many miles.

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Keeping friends when you part ways for college

manatcrossroads32184552.jpgCollege is an exciting time of new experiences, new friends, and the beginning of a new chapter of life.

But many people worry that once they part ways for college, the close friendships they have had over the years through school. will go away. While this often happens, it doesn't have to be the case.

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How to not offend family members

lawyer37472724.jpgIn family relationships, some relationships are so strained that you have to worry about your actions. You need to think about you are doing or saying so that you do not offend your family members. In other cases, you might be faced with a conservative family member, who can easily be offended by things that you do or say. In family gatherings, you need to be on your best behavior so that you do not offend family members.

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How to not make enemies out of friends

meninsuitswordfight32346821.jpgIn the workplace or in your personal life we all need friends to help us get through the day. Many times, you can take a relationship with friends from the workplace and turn it into a personal friendship, but you cannot do this if you make enemies out of friends.

Here are some steps you can follow to avoid making enemies out of friends.

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How to make friends out of enemies

fighting28710646.jpgYou are not going to get along with everybody. You will sometimes even find people that you despise, but just because you can't stand to be around that person doesn't mean you can't be friends with the. Spending the energy to despise somebody is a waste of time; it wastes energy that you could be spending doing on other things. Instead of despising this person, what you need to do is learn how to turn your enemies into friends.

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How to handle pushy in-laws

mencommunicating19220419.jpgOnce you and your spouse have gotten married, you are going to need to learn how to deal with your in-laws. In most cases, in-laws are fine and can be easily handled until a grandchild appears. Problems with pushy in-laws can begin when you are pregnant or they can start after the baby is born. For example, you might find yourself defending future decisions about putting your child into daycare or whether it is best to breast or bottle feed. If you are experiencing these kinds of problems now, you can only imagine what is going to happen once the baby is born. The problem is that if you ignore the behaviors of pushy in-laws while you are pregnant and wait to deal with the problem until later, you will find that the problem quickly got out of hand. The best thing you can do with pushy in-laws is to deal with the problem as soon as it presents itself.

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How to discuss things that irritate you in a relationship

unsure19166659.jpgYou've probably heard that communication is one of the most important ways to keep a relationship happy and successful.

Proper communication is essential for a successful relationship. Instead of addressing the issue at hand, poor communicators skirt around it, or avoid letting their spouse know that they are upset or unsatisfied. Problems can't be solved if they aren't first addressed--your spouse can't read your mind, so make sure you learn to communicate by telling your spouse the things in your marriage you are not happy with.

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How to deal with a manipulative sibling

friends30731255.jpgManipulative siblings are after one thing, they seek to control everything around them. If you have a manipulative sibling, you need to learn how to deal with them right away because any relationship that involves manipulation is headed for trouble. Your mental and emotional health depends on you recognizing and dealing with a manipulative sibling.

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How to act on a crush

flowers37734910.jpgIf you have a crush on somebody, the biggest thing that you are worried about is keeping your feelings quiet; you want to be discreet about having a crush on somebody. One of the reasons that people do not like to talk about crushes is because guys prefer girls who play a little hard to get rather than girls who show obvious signs of affection, the same concept holds true for girls. Acting normal around your crush is one of the best things that you can do to get your crush's attention and still spark their interest.

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Get Bit by the Keep in Touch Bug

manonphone30342808.jpgKeeping in touch with friends can be difficult, especially when distance is an obstacle. Interaction is what keeps a relationship alive, but who says it has to be face to face interaction. If you can commit to keeping touch with friends even when they don't live close by, you'll find a world of ways to help you keep your commitment. Here are a few suggestions:

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Friendship is not a competition

menintugofwar23085268.jpgFriendship is an important part of the human experience. Good friends are there to lift us up, encourage us, share in our happiness and successes, and support us.

With that in mind, a good friendship is not a competition. Competition in friendship can lead to hurt feelings, resentment, and other negative emotions that can drive two friends apart.

"Friendship is not a competition" »

Forgive and forget, is it possible?

concernedman19185284.jpgForgiving and forgetting what somebody has done to you is not always possible to do. The reason for this is that it is often hard for us to forget what somebody has done to hurt us, but that does not mean that we cannot forgive them for what they have done. Rather than trying to forgive and forget what people have done to you, the best you can do is learn to forgive so you can move on with your life.

"Forgive and forget, is it possible?" »

Family relationships get strained during the holidays

gifts36406440.jpgHolidays are a great time to spend with family. They provide you with a chance to bond with your family, but at the same time, holidays can put a lot of strain on family relationships. One of the main reasons that so much stress is put on family relationships during the holidays is that conflicts can come up about whom you should go see or where to go. The best thing that you can do is to learn how to deal with the strain placed on your family relationships during the holidays.

"Family relationships get strained during the holidays" »

Too friendly co-workers?

manwithdatebook23291499.jpgQuestion: My wife is really good friends with some of the people she works with. I want to encourage her to have friends at her office, but sometimes it makes me uncomfortable how friendly they are. She goes to lunch with one of the guys from her office several times a week, sometimes in a group, sometimes just the two of them. In addition, they often talk on the phone. Even though it is always about work, I can't help but wish they weren't quite so close. Am I over-reacting?

"Too friendly co-workers?" »

My friend the mooch

walletwithmoney8252668.jpgQuestion: My friend is a really thoughtful person, but she is also a huge mooch, and it is so annoying. She is constantly "forgetting her wallet" or saying that she "will get me next time". Sometimes we go out to eat, and she doesn't order, and then she wants to take my leftovers home, or asks for bites from everyone. She never chips in for gas. We rent movies a lot, and she never pays to rent it, and everyone usually brings snacks, but she never contributes. I enjoy her company, but I am sick of always footing the bill. It isn't just money. She always wants to borrow my clothes, and she forgets to return them. How can I get her to stop mooching?

"My friend the mooch" »

Lingering feelings

kiss30904651.jpgQuestion: I am married, but I have lingering feelings for a past boyfriend. I barely ever see him, but will talk to him on Facebook, or text him occasionally. I am not cheating, and never would, but I am not sure what to do. I can't seem to help it. And I sometimes feel a little bit unsatisfied with my husband as a result. Advice?

"Lingering feelings" »

How do I get out of a lie?

untruthfulwoman34487679.jpgQuestion: So, when I first met my current spouse, I told him a lie, and now that we have been married for a few years, and I feel like I need to come clean, but how? What was the lie? Well, I have a really beautiful sister and every time I ever introduced her to someone I was dating, they seemed to lose interest in me and go for her. So, when they met, I told him that she aborted a baby when she was sixteen. I knew he was really pro-life, and that it would turn him off to her. It worked. But now we are married, and he still doesn't like her. She doesn't get it, and I feel guilty all the time. What can I do?

"How do I get out of a lie?" »

How do I get noticed?

makingavideo36668973.jpgQuestion: I have had a crush on someone I see almost daily at school for a year now, but they do not know I exist. I have talked to them a few times, and been in a study group with them before, but to no avail. I worry that they will never notice me. Should I just ask them out, or should I wait for them to notice me? If I should wait, then how can I get them to notice me?

"How do I get noticed?" »

Ways to think the best about your spouse

embrace19167388.jpgWhile every marriage is going to have its difficulties one of the best ways to get through those rough patches is to have a good relationship with your spouse. Part of having a good relationship with your spouse is thinking of your spouse in the best possible light. This can help your relationship because it can stop you from saying something that you might regret, which can help you to save your marriage.

"Ways to think the best about your spouse" »

Ways to make your children think better of themselves

guitar39172348.jpgIf children have a low view of themselves or they feel that they are not a good person, there can be a variety of reasons behind that. As parents, we often feel helpless because we think there is nothing that we can do to stop our child from feeling that way. However, there are plenty of different things that you can do to stop your child from feeling like a bad person. The worst thing that you as a parent could do in this situation is to sit back and do nothing. Perhaps the most important thing that you can do to help your child feel better about them is to talk to your child, regardless of if they are listening or not and never give up on them.

"Ways to make your children think better of themselves" »

Ways to deal with the unattractive attributes of your spouse

couple19190434.jpgWhen you first get married, you think that you know everything there is to know about your spouse, but you probably don't. When you were dating your spouse and during your engagement, your spouse probably put their best foot forward, so you did not get to see some of the more unattractive attributes that your spouse had, unless you lived with them before you were married. Once you have moved in with someone you find out about all their attributes, including the unattractive ones.

"Ways to deal with the unattractive attributes of your spouse" »

Using videos to keep in touch with old friends

webcam45381716.jpgReconnecting with old friends and family couldn't be easier than it is today in our world of email, YouTube, and all the social networking sites available for expanding and finding people you're missing. The distance between family members has become even shorter with the ability to send video mail. A webcam, microphone and you as the cast is all you need to put a more personal touch to staying in touch with friends and family that you can't see often. What better way to share your memories with some of your old friends that live far away?

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Tips on making new friends

coworkersaroungacomputer22990951.jpgNo matter what your reason might be there is going to come a time in your life when you have to make new friends. For some people making new friends is a simple thing to do, for others it might be a little bit difficult but they can still get the job done, and with others the thought of making new friends scares them to death. Just because you have a hard time, making new friends that doesn't mean that it is impossible for you to make new friends, what it means is that you are going to need to learn some tips and tricks to making new friends.

"Tips on making new friends" »

Simple tips to make friends at work

newspaper19313939.jpgIn today's society we find that most of our time is spent working. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to connect and make friends with those whom you spend the majority of your time? Whether you find yourself in a new job or just in a position where you are isolated from people this article will provide you with some helpful tips to help you make friends at work.

"Simple tips to make friends at work" »

Resolving conflicts in the home

fatherson41825765.jpgNo relationship is without conflict. The way in which we handle these conflicts will be the defining characteristics of our personalities. Some marriages will endure harder challenges and this causes them to grow strong together or it forces them apart. Then there are the families that have large conflicts happen due to children moving from tweens to teens. No matter what, conflict is inevitable and we all need to face it sooner or later.

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Reasons why talking nicely to your children helps improve your relationship

checkbox63308153.jpgAs a parent, one of the main jobs that you have is making sure that your children are raised properly, according to your standards. You are also trying to raise your children to be all that they can be by giving them the tools that they need to become productive members of society, you want your child to add to the world rather than taking from it. However, sometimes no matter how hard we try to do what is right we end up doing something that can undermine everything that we have accomplished with our children.

"Reasons why talking nicely to your children helps improve your relationship" »

Qualities in a great friend

business41865609.jpgNot everybody has the same idea on what it takes to be a friend. It is because of this variation in thinking that we have a variety of friends. Most of us have friends that fall into different categories. We have good friends, friends that are simply acquaintances, and we have great friends. Just because we have known somebody for a long time that doesn't automatically make them a great friend. In order to be a great friend you are going to have to meet certain qualifications.

"Qualities in a great friend" »

Opening up to your co-workers and developing friendships with them

groupofmenatlunch30338711.jpgWhen you start a new job or you have new employee's hired on at your current job, you can find yourself forming bonds and friendships with a lot of new and diverse people. Learning about new people and opening up yourself to make co-workers your friends can be difficult and challenging at times.

"Opening up to your co-workers and developing friendships with them" »

Making friends after you get divorced

familyfriends30715802.jpgIf you have just recently gone through a divorce, you might have noticed that some of your friendships are a bit more strained than before. The main reason for this is that when you get divorced many of your friends' feel awkward being around you because they used to be friends with both you and your spouse. Most people who were your friends once you got married, no matter how well intentioned they are, have a hard time being friends with both people. The main reason for that is that most people have opinions and those opinions are not easily kept to themselves, meaning they probably have an opinion one way or another about your divorce from your spouse.

"Making friends after you get divorced" »

Improving your friendships

twowomanhighfivingeachother22990915.jpgAny friendship that you might have is going to need to be maintained if we expect it to last a lifetime. All too often what happens is we become friends with people and we neglect to maintain our friendship, so people think that you no longer want to be friends.

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How to make new friends

maninwheelcahirshakinghandswithwoman23092144.jpgThere is going to come a time in your life when you are going to need to expand your circle of friends. Most people have no problem talking to people and making new friends, but a few just can't seem to get up the courage to talk to new people. If you have to make new friends and are petrified of the thought the best thing that you can do is to learn some quick steps to follow to make friends easily.

"How to make new friends" »

How to connect with your co-workers

confidence30842627.jpgWhenever we start a new job, the thought that crosses all of our minds is if we will be able to do the job and be able to connect with our co-workers. Connecting to a new group of people can be hard, especially combining new co-workers with existing co-workers. These are people that you will see every day and possibly more than your own family. Finding the confidence to introduce yourself and putting yourself out there can be very intimating especially if you are a shy person. So how do you connect with your co-workers? Here are some easy tips that can help you connect with co-workers:

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How to build strong communication in the home

family30352360.jpgCommunication, effective and open, is an important part of strong, healthy families. It is an essential tool for developing and maintaining strong marital, parental and sibling relationships within the family.

"How to build strong communication in the home" »

How to be a great friend

drinks60514724.jpgBeing a great friend is something that can be easy or hard, it all depends on how you look at it. However, the one thing that you need to keep in mind is that being a great friend is not something that you can do when you feel like it. In order to be a great friend you are going to have to be willing to sacrifice things for your friends. You can't be a great friend if you are only a part-time friend, being a great friend requires you being there full time.

"How to be a great friend" »

Having a strong marriage during the first year

weddingband36821550.jpgWhen you get married the first thing that you envision is having a perfect marriage for the rest of your life, however, this doesn't always happen. In order to have a strong marriage you are going to need to put time and effort into working on your relationship to make it stronger and keep it strong. The more work that you put into your relationship the stronger your marriage is going to be. One thing that you want to think about is that it is never too early to work on making your relationship stronger, in fact the earlier you start to better.

"Having a strong marriage during the first year" »

Giving old friendships time to blossom

friends26667557.jpgHuman beings are social creatures by nature. We crave love and attention from our peers. This is why so many people absolutely loved high school and way so many others hated it. All of us must take time to strengthen our friendships or we can easily lose the people that have come into our lives. This commonly happens with old high school friends. They may have been your best friend for years, but you went separate ways after high school. Over time you found it harder and harder to stay in touch with your friend and different situations forced the two of you to lose contact.

"Giving old friendships time to blossom" »

Getting in touch with old friends

cellphone30346706.jpgSocial networking sites were created to keep people in touch with one another. People have found that social networking sites provide them with a great opportunity to get in touch with their high school classmates. By nature, humans are social creates. We like to interact with one another and we love to find out what are old classmates are up to.

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Getting along with co-workers

handshake30395603.jpgIt's not your fault that your co-workers may be difficult to get along with but it is your fault if you let them get to you. Even if you have obnoxious co-workers, you can still find ways to influence them. Getting along with your co-workers is important if you want to experience job satisfaction and if you want to keep your job! Although you may not be the difficult employee to get along with, you can lose your job if you make a big deal out of the person that is hard to get along with. Getting along with your co-workers comes down to having patience, respect, tolerance, and courtesy.

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Finding someone to talk to about your marriage

interview26236689.jpgMany people who have talked to a marriage counselor have found that this is a great thing to do if their marriage is in trouble. The reason that so many people have found this helpful is because a marriage counselor can provide you with a lot of support and motivation, which can help to save your relationship. Family and friends can also provide you with support, but they cannot guide you through things like those that a marriage counselor can because they are not considered a neutral party. A marriage counselor can help guide you through emotional problems, motivational issues, and finding solutions for your problems that are going on in your relationship.

"Finding someone to talk to about your marriage" »

Conflict, a normal part of every relationship

arguingcoworkers23282211.jpgWe may not want to believe it, but all relationships face challenges. From the time you make your first friend, to sparring with an older sibling, and eventually conflicting with a spouse, each of us wonders how normal we can be if we are arguing with the ones we love the most. The fact is though, even healthy relationships face conflict in some form.

"Conflict, a normal part of every relationship" »

Common ground a great foundation for a friendship

friends30742814.jpgMost friendships happen because you have something in common with your friends. If you didn't have anything in common with your friend, chances are you probably wouldn't have started talking to them in the first place. Now that you want to enlarge your circle of friends or if you have moved to a new area and need to make new friends one of the best things that you can do is find some common ground and build your friendship up from there. Having a common ground is a great foundation for your friendship for a variety of reasons.

"Common ground a great foundation for a friendship" »

Common family relationship problems

family30766912.jpgSome of the most common family relationship problems occur in our everyday lives. How you recognize them and handle them is a choice you have to make for yourself and your family. One of the most common relationship problems is communication. Everyone has their own way of communicating. Communication is mostly done with words, but can also be used with other senses, such as sight, sound and touch. Take the time to listen to your family members. This will help you know what their needs are. This will also show your family member that you will take the time to listen, and they will do the same for you. Keep the lines of communication open by listening and talking.

"Common family relationship problems" »

Building friendships after graduation

cellphone30365260.jpgEvery year students look forward to summer vacation because it means they get to spend time with their friends doing fun and exciting things. However, when you graduate from high school you will no longer have summer vacation to look forward too, instead you are about to being a completely new journey in life. Beginning this new journey causes some teens to worry what is going to happen to their friendships with certain people. The reason that so many people worry is because you will no longer be seeing the same faces in the hallway, many people will be leaving for college in the fall, so how are you supposed to build and maintain your friendships after you have graduated.

"Building friendships after graduation" »

Building a connection with your co-workers

busfriends30396999-1.jpgTo build solid relationships with your co-workers practice four principles: commonalities, connectivity, communication and collaboration. Each of these principles needs to be practiced to create a strong solid connection. While there is not a specific order (i.e. commonalities do not necessary need to come before communication), each of the principles is vital to creating a successful connection, and pleasant work environment.

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Boosting job satisfaction through healthy work relationships

businessmeeting30393267.jpgJob satisfaction is the outcome of two types of factors: intrinsic and extrinsic. One of the main extrinsic factors is the relationship of an employee with their supervisor. A leader's positive attitude toward their subordinates usually improves employee's attitudes toward work, their leader, and the organization. This in turn typically leads to higher intrinsic motivation for the employee. A good match between intrinsic and extrinsic motivation results in job satisfaction. How do you create this healthy relationship between the intrinsic and extrinsic factors? Both the supervisor and the employee need to maintain positive attitudes in creating a healthy working environment. If you are the supervisor here are some simple guidelines.

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Adolescents and family relationships

preteengirls37473153.jpgFamily dynamics change with the entrance of a teenager. The ability to communicate effectively with an adolescent can by trying and frustrating even on your best days. You can't force her to be well behaved or make good decisions, but you can stay involved in her life at a different level and still have an expectation as a family unit for your teenager.
So you have some influence still, but not much control. It's true with a two year old and even truer with adolescents stretching for independence and respect. Your role in managing your child has just changed to a different level. Now you can consult, offer advice, and hope that what you've communicated and taught as a family will have a positive effect on how they make their decisions.

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3 things to avoid when you have a family argument

perparingforboxing33338232.jpgAll of us have had a family argument at least once, it is inevitable. A family is made up of differing personalities, sometimes different core beliefs and this can cause conflicts in the home. Arguments can get extremely ugly. Emotions are running high. Everyone has an opinion, many times, very different from yours. Tempers are flaring. Reason's to have left the building. Objects may even start to fly. How do things get so out of hand so fast? Here are three things to avoid during a family argument:

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What is wrong with interracial marriage?

mulitracial39158659.jpgWhat is wrong with interracial marriages? Absolutely nothing. You may hear people advise against them, and think that it is close-minded, or racist to do such a thing, but the fact is, it is often just advice to make marriage a little easier. The following is a look at the drawbacks to interracial marriages. These drawbacks do not mean the marriage can't or won't work, and that they should not take place, it is just an accounting of some of the common obstacles that two people of different races face when they get married.

"What is wrong with interracial marriage?" »

What do men want to hear?

mantexting37731079.jpgMen and women want to hear different things in some cases, but sometimes they want to hear the same things. So, what do men want to hear? Try the following:

1. Compliments. Just like a woman wants to know that she looks nice, smells good, or did something well, men want to hear it too. Humans like to be complimented. It helps them feel better about themselves. It validates the thoughts they have. It gives them confidence. Do your man a favor and make a point of complimenting him.

"What do men want to hear?" »

The May-December Romance

movie19015253.jpgDating is a personal choice. Some people prefer to date those of the same age range as them. Some choose to date much older or younger than their age. Some date only certain ethnicities, or education levels, or religions. While it is a personal choice, the choice you make can impact your relationship. A common romance, and one often joked about, or whispered about is that of the May-December romance. This is a romance where one partner is significantly older than the other.

"The May-December Romance" »

Showing your man some love

engagement31095490.jpgEveryone feels love differently. For some people physical expressions of love are necessary for them to feel loved. For others it is spending time together that makes them feel loved. For others it is all about the words, the tones of voice used, etc. So, if you want to show your man some love, the first thing you have to remember is that men and women do not always feel loved the same way.

"Showing your man some love" »

Safe Sex Overview

sideview32994967.jpgWith the high risk of sexually transmitted diseases, safe sex practices are more important than ever. Safe sex is also important to prevent pregnancy. Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) are spread by sexual contact, not just sexual intercourse. Oral sex and anal sex can both cause STDs to occur. There are several sexually transmitted diseases like Chlamydia, genital warts, and gonorrhea that can cause not only embarrassment, they can cause other problems like infertility.

"Safe Sex Overview" »

Narcissistic personalities and relationships

clip71731932.jpgNarcissism can be a boon to relationships. The characteristics of narcissistic personalities can negatively impact any relationship. Even though most people exhibit some level of narcissistic traits, those with strong narcissistic personalities may overestimate their abilities, and may require a lot of attention, admiration, affection, etc. This can be very draining to a relationship, especially when the selfishness of narcissism manifests itself, and these high levels of admiration are one sided.

"Narcissistic personalities and relationships" »

Laws of attraction

kiss30904651.jpgIn dating, one of the things most people do not give enough credence to is the law of attraction. The law of attraction is a simple concept, which is that whatever you send out into the universe will attract corresponding thoughts, emotions, beliefs and actions.

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Is it worth staying in an unhappy marriage?

manatcrossroads32184552.jpgMany people who are unhappy in their marriage may ask themselves if it is worth it to stay in the marriage. The answer to that question is complicated, as life often is. In order to discover your personal answer to that question, ask yourself the following questions:

"Is it worth staying in an unhappy marriage?" »

How to make a long distance relationship work

cellphone30362662.jpgWhile long distance relationships can be difficult, the following are some things you can do to make them work:

1. Find ways to stay connected. There are numerous ways that any relationship can stay connected. Thanks to technology you now have the ability to talk, email, text, instant message, post on a wall, video chat, and the list goes on. If you have a long distance relationship, it does not have to seem so far because you have several options for bridging the gap. Even couples who do live close do not see each other all day long, so in some ways, you could be even closer in a long distance relationship because you take advantage of using the many technological options for staying connected.

"How to make a long distance relationship work" »

How to get revenge in relationships

mantiedup28718953.jpgSometimes a relationship just goes bad. However, other times someone is to blame for it. When this is the case, the partner who is not to blame may want some retribution for the heartache, pain, and embarrassment they suffered because of the other person's actions. So, how can they get revenge?

"How to get revenge in relationships" »

How can you tell he loves you?

flowers37734910.jpgBecause men are not known for being overly showy of their emotions, it can be difficult to know what their emotions are, even love. So, how can you tell he loves you? Consider the following:

"How can you tell he loves you?" »

Get your ex out of your head

stressedwoman16009389.jpgJust because you have broken up with someone doesn't mean you don't think about them still. Even if you are the one that ended the relationship, there is a chance that you can't stop thinking about your ex. So, what can you do to get your ex out of your head? Try the following:

"Get your ex out of your head" »

Falling in love with someone you have never met

olderwomanonphone32013024.jpgIs it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met? Some say that it is. Many would argue that you do not have to meet someone in person to get to know them and fall in love with them. Online dating is becoming a huge phenomenon. The whole world seems to be going virtual, but is it safe to do your dating that way?

"Falling in love with someone you have never met" »

Domestic violence

missingpuzzlepiece19378437.jpgDomestic violence in relationships is a very serious problem, and one that is often difficult to not just identify, but also to stop. Many of the victims believe they deserve the abuse, and are unwilling to "betray" their abusers or turn them in. Domestic abuse often goes hand in hand with emotional abuse.

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Are you dating a sociopath?

holdinghands41861325.jpgThe psychological disorder of sociopathic behavior can have ill effects on relationships. It is an antisocial personality disorder that often leads to abusive, unhealthy relationships. The following is a look at some of the characteristics of a sociopath. If the person you are dating fits these characteristics, you may want to consider breaking up, or getting them psychological help:

"Are you dating a sociopath?" »

Are men capable of love?

fatherdaughter41835761.jpgMany women want to know if men are capable of love. This is a much debated subject because biologically men are often considered hard wired to mate with any and everything. Men often struggle with emotion. Men often take longer to feel depths of emotion, which is why many people say that men do not cry. So, the question remains, are men capable of love? Or are they limited to lust and baser emotions? While this is something that can inspire philosophical debate, the simple answer is YES, men are capable of love. Whether or not they act on it is questionable. The following are some things to consider when it comes to answering the question of whether or not men are capable of love:

"Are men capable of love?" »

What to do when your best friend starts changing for the worst

concernedman19185284.jpgMaking and keeping friends is a valuable life skill. Children learn it from the earliest ages and yet as adults it is a forgotten art. Rarely do we think about how much work it takes to cultivate new friendships and face all the challenges that go along with building the relationships. If you were to ask the best way to make and keep a friend, the rules can be keep short and simple:

"What to do when your best friend starts changing for the worst" »

Tired of fighting with your siblings? Tips to stop.

sibilings63561169.jpgTeens are prone to fighting with their siblings and if it is not controlled, the problem may continue into adulthood. Fighting with siblings can cause marital strain on their parents and it is actually one of the reasons why parents divorce. Parents that are tired of seeing their children fight with one another need to follow these tips to get them to stop:

"Tired of fighting with your siblings? Tips to stop." »

Staying committed to your spouse

gift36874163.jpgOur traditional model of marriage in the United States has remained stable and unchanged for more than 50 years. We have based our expectations on the relationships of our parents and grandparents and learned our beliefs about marriage based on the need for financial security, continuity and support. As the world changed and more women have had to integrate family life with work life, this model, although traditional, is not geared towards partnership and supporting individual needs.

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Keeping your marriage strong and healthy

romance30337203.jpgFifty percent of all marriages end in divorce, which makes it even more important to learn how to keep your marriage healthy and strong today. Marriages bring together two people who have differing backgrounds, feelings, thoughts and values and expecting them to live together for the rest of their lives. This is bound to cause challenges throughout the years. From young marriage woes of building careers and families, to the empty nest years when couples must reinvent their relationships, there are several tools that can help you and your spouse stay focused on the positive investment you've made in each other over years of trials and accomplishments.

"Keeping your marriage strong and healthy" »

Internet friend problems

womanonlaptop30719432.jpgInternet friendships are gaining more popularity. The typical challenges of personal friendships such as distance, marriage, children and work do not always affect internet relationships. They have their own set of challenges and rewards and require creative thinking to address many of the issues that may be easily avoided if there was more face to face time. Learning to be flexible to the ever shifting needs and quirks of a friendship will ensure resiliency and strength in the relationship.

"Internet friend problems" »

How to save your marriage before it is too late

embrace19167388.jpgAll marriages go through periods of insecurity, changes and challenges. It's how you handle each challenge and face each change that decides whether you save your marriage or let it fail. Marriage is a total commitment to the success of a team over individual accomplishment. You must be able to face each challenge as a team from a unified front in order to find the path to happiness. If your marriage is experiencing a difficult time and you're not sure where to turn, here are some suggestions for how to save your marriage before it's too late.

"How to save your marriage before it is too late" »

Helping a friend through personal challenges

twomenwalkingdownthestairs7625667.jpgOur friends are an important piece of our lives, and when they struggle with problems we want to do all that we can to help them face and overcome issues. The love and respect we feel for our close friends can sometimes be enough to help them overcome personal challenges as long as we use tools and techniques that are positive and focus on empowering them to find their own solutions.

"Helping a friend through personal challenges" »

Handling harassment in the office

manandwomanatendofhall32810136.jpgHarassment in the office can include many different faces, from office bully to unwanted sexual contact, employees and businesses need to understand how to protect themselves from potentially serious and dangerous harassment issues.

"Handling harassment in the office" »

Finding time to compliment co-workers and boost employee morale

business41865609.jpgRecent studies have proven that the moral of a company's employees is directly linked to the profitability of the company. Old fashioned methods of offering financial incentives are no longer considered coveted perks in the business world and the economy has put many businesses in dire need of assistance when it comes to keeping employees happy and secure in the workplace. The ability to retain healthy, happy employees is a valuable commodity in the business world and creative benefits and finding time to compliment employees and boost morale in the office will help increase productivity and the bottom line.

"Finding time to compliment co-workers and boost employee morale" »

Feeling left-out in your group of friends? How to cope.

guys26651924.jpgAs adults, most of us have learned how to cope with the changing tides of friendship. We have those friends who are close to us and have been for many years, and the acquaintances that come in to our lives for a certain time or reason. But when these changing tides hit our teens, who are already in the midst of evolving into their own personality and individual, feeling left out of a crowd can be a devastating experience.

"Feeling left-out in your group of friends? How to cope." »

Dysfunctional boss and co-workers

perparingforboxing33338232.jpgDysfunctional corporate behavior, on the part of a boss or co-worker is something many of us have heard of, but rarely have put our workplace through the test of signs. Unprofessional activities in the workplace can cause an unhappy work environment as well as loss of productivity by employees and is shown in high turn over and lowered fiscal ratings. If you recognize some of these issues below, you may be in the midst of a counter-productive work environment:

"Dysfunctional boss and co-workers" »

Dealing with office relationships

portfolio71367089.jpgOffice relationships, from friendships to more intimate partners have an impact on the office environment and the overall productivity in the office. Often time's co-workers spend significantly more time together than with their families and outside friends, so being able to separate private and work life is imperative. Multiple problems can arise from in-house relationships that will affect the entire team.

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Dealing with friends with mood swings and personality disorders

womanangryatphone35813101.jpgMood swings are a part of life, and with some personality disorders, a blinding way of life that can take people from one extreme to another. Moods vary from really happy and energetic to very low and depressed. This way of living is very emotionally and physically draining because the swing from high to low takes so much energy. If you have a friend whose mood swings tend to be more intense and more frequent than what you consider normal, here are some ways to determine whether it is just a mood swing or something more serious.

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Coping with conflict and miscommunication in the office

meninsuitswordfight32346821.jpgWe may not want to believe it, but all relationships face challenges and conflict, even in an office environment. Different personalities and perspectives along with varying degrees of professionalism and competition help us all deal, or in some cases, not deal with conflict. Conflict in workplace is often the result of simple miscommunications. There are some costly ways of handling miscommunication in the office that may have you dealing with consequences long after the matter has been addressed.

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Building a marriage as a young couple

engagement31095490.jpgBuilding a marriage as a young couple is a challenging adventure. Young couples in their early 20's are at the highest risk for divorce. The statistics drop when people are in their late 20's through 30's because the individual growth curve has started to slow down. Many young married couples are still maturing individually and may not be equipped to deal with the stress and strain of marriage and family life. The challenges that young couples face can be daunting and it is important for young adults to accept and face many of these issues before being able to form a lasting bond together.

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What kind of marriage do you want?

wedding41814299.jpgMarriage is an age old institution, but that does not mean that everyone has the same kind of marriage. Some people do things one way, and others another. What works for some, may not work for others. For example, a regular date night might work wonders for one marriage, but what about the marriage where the husband or wife is overseas on deployment? Is their marriage doomed to fail because they can't go out to a movie once a week? The following are a few keys to a healthy marriage, and things to do depending on the kind of marriage you want:

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What girls dislike in boys

rejecting63314693.jpgWhile every person has a different view on what they want for their spouse, in general there are things men and women like and dislike in each other. The following is a look at some of the things women tend to dislike in men:

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Wedding gifts one-uppence

giftbox36222432.jpgWeddings are very exciting for the happy couple and also for all the guests that will be attending the event and doting on the bride and groom. Many gifts and greetings are exchanged during the course of bridal showers, receptions and housewarming gifts and many newlyweds look forward to the things that their friends and family will be gifting to them. But there is another aspect of wedding gift giving that some people are less likely to appreciate or enjoy and it is wedding gift one-uppence.

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Ungrateful spouse

mantiedup28718953.jpgIf you are married (or have ever been married), the phrase "ungrateful spouse" can pack a real punch. Even the happiest of couples have these types of feelings from time to time. No doubt in any relationship there will be times when the "give and take" of a happy marriage falls out of balance. Some people just stay in "take" mode a little longer than the "giving" partner would prefer. Generally, the intent of one spouse is not to be ungrateful of the other spouse, communication and having an attitude of understanding are two key elements to ensuring that feelings of being unappreciated or undervalued stay in check.

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Ungrateful friends

womenboxingman28724766.jpgOne thing that makes many people more angry than almost anything else is people that are ungrateful or who don't show gratitude when it is due. It can be difficult to deal with people you don't have any relationship that are ungrateful and even more difficult if it is a problem that someone you are friends with has. People who are ungrateful are sometimes oblivious to the fact and there are many things you can do to help them and make a good relationship out of bad situations.

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The secrets to successful dating

womanshusing10041531.jpgIf you want to date successfully, there are some steps you should follow. Consider the following tips to successful dating.

1. Avoid steady dating early on. The point of dating is to get to know someone and to determine who and what it is that you are interested in. So, you can't know what you like if you do not get to know more people, and expose yourself to more friends, dates, etc. The best thing you can do is date a lot, and get to know your options.

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Thank you notes

onlinedating16468290.jpgA thank you note is a big part of gifts. If someone gives you a gift, whether it is for a wedding gift, or a shower gift, etc. it is considered a part of good manners to write a thank you note. So, what are the rules? Consider the following:

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Relationship age differences

clip71731932.jpgRelationships are very important in our lives and shape so much of what we do and see each day. It is very difficult to go through life without any kind of relationship whatsoever and people that live the most satisfied and fulfilled lives have strong and healthy relationships. Age can sometimes be a factor that complicates relationships and can really make life more difficult for some people. No matter what the age difference, a healthy relationship will always work out much better than one where communication is a problem.

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Pregnancy when friend can't get pregnant

pregnant41922091.jpgTrying to put yourself in someone else's shoes is almost always the most effective way to figure out for yourself how it is that you should act in a situation that is uncomfortable. Just as in the case of being pregnant and having a friend who can't get pregnant, understanding the emotions that your friend is likely to be going through when they hear the news of your pregnancy can help to guide you as you try to find the right words to say in those awkward situations.

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Nosy friends

busfriends30396999-1.jpgThere are times when you may have something you just don't want to share with anyone else. When others start to pry or get nosy about things that we really don't want to share, it can sure put a damper on the moment and make it more difficult to deal with the situation. Here are some tips for dealing with nosy friends.

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Multiple parents on father's and mother's day

womanwithdatebook19201063.jpgHaving multiple parents on any holiday can be especially challenging for any child. Even those who have grown up in a multi-parent situation continue to struggle with the logistic and emotional issues associated with having more than one mom or dad. Mother's day and father's day are especially challenging as these two holidays are specifically dedicated to parents. So what do you do? Well, every situation has different dynamics and so there is no one answer that we all can dictate our actions from. However, relationship and family experts have provided some guidelines that can help to give you some direction as you decide how to best honor the parents in your life.

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Learning how to be unselfish in love

womanoncellphone23007547.jpgLove is something we all seek, and something we need in our life, but often we are a bit selfish in our love. Selfishness and love do not mix. So, if you want to have a healthy relationship, and experience love the way you should, then consider the following three tips:

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Keeping mementos from past relationships once you are married

womanthinking19103605.jpgOften after a relationship you have things to remember it by. For example, you may have photographs of time spent together, or ticket stubs of trips, shows, etc. you might have enjoyed, or maybe a stuffed animal, article of clothing, or something of the similar. So, what do you do with them if you are now married to someone else? Do you get rid of them, or keep them?

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Learning how to work in groups

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Working in groups is part of everyday work. Practically every job requires you to work in some sort of group. Many universities focus on the importance of working in groups and they encourage students to join study groups or work on projects together. Working in groups teaches students and employees how to get along with different personalities. This helps them to become better students or co-workers. Here are some tips that may help you learn how to work in groups.

First, recognize that it isn't always easy to work with others. You may have an easy-going personality that gets along with everyone, but your co-workers might not. If this is your first experience working in a group, be flexible.

You cannot be too stubborn or else you will butt heads with most of your co-workers or fellow students. Students are typically graded as s group instead of as individual effort so it is important to pull your weight. Employees are held responsible as a group and as individuals so it is important not to let your co-workers down by not doing your part.

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Face it!

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Communication is more than words, and one of the more effective ways to communicate without words is through your facial expressions. The looks you give people can speak volumes, and it is critical to understand this, as often a great relationship starts to head downhill because of a misunderstood facial expression or look.

Your face can say a lot. A glare speaks of anger or frustration. An eyebrow raise says disbelief or shock. A brow furrow means confusion or concentration. A stuck out tongue means silliness. A wink means conspiring, or flirting.

A nose wrinkle means distaste. An eye roll, a lip pucker, a tilt of the lip, a skewing of lips, a frown, the options are endless, and all convey different messages. All can be taken badly. If you are smiling when angry, doesn't that take the edge off some? People often read more out of the facial expression than the words being said.

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Strengthening your communication skills, strengthen your friendships

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Communication skills are some of the most valuable skills a person can have in every relationship, whether it's at work, home, or with friends. In fact, when problems in a friendship come up, more often than not it's from a lack of communication that leads to misunderstandings or hurt feelings.

Your can strengthen your friendships by strengthening your communication skills in the following ways:

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Solving communication problems in friendships

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All relationships can be difficult at times and since they are complex they can be tricky to figure out. If you are having communication problems in a friendship it can be difficult to navigate and resolve. Since no two human beings communicates in the same way it can be stressful and trying to figure out how to fix it. But the good news is that there are proven strategies that can help improve the communication in your friendships and if it has gone off track get it back on. Here are some tips for solving communication in friendships-

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Reasons for communication problems in friendships

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While each friendship and relationship is as unique as the people involved in them the reasons for communication problems tend to be quite universal. Human relationships with their varying qualities all seem to suffer from the same pitfalls. These pitfalls can cause communication problems to come up between the people who are involved in the relationship. Yet by knowing what these pitfalls are and understanding how to avoid them you can improve the quality of your friendships. Here are some of the most common reasons for communication problems in friendships-

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Communication problems in friendships

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In today's fast paced world everyone is working harder and having less time to stay in touch and nurture relationships. This can be especially true for friends. If you are an adult managing family, career and other obligations you may find that your friends are being pushed down the list. To make matters worse you may find that when you are together then communication problems can result causing problems and putting more strain on already strained friendships. There are several reasons for this and determining what is plaguing your friendship can be the first step in developing better communication and forming better friendships. Here are some common communication problems in friendships-

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