Teenagers Articles

"I'd do anything to be popular."
How many times have we heard that phrase, or worse yet, how many times have we wished it ourselves? What is it about being popular that is so desirable? Popularity is a social recognition that teens and some adults continue to crave generation after generation. It is inescapable.

The phrase, "I'd do anything to be popular" presents a scary situation. How many teens really would allow themselves to do anything to gain recognition? In today's society we see this situation present itself time and time again. It lurks its ugly head with gangs, with grade school, and even with adults. It becomes increasingly more scary for our children today as they are faced with more and more temptation to join the "cool" club by doing things contrary to the teachings of their parents. For example, you'll be cool if you steal this from the store..or you'll be cool if you take these drugs. While sometimes, the actions required to join the cool club are trivial, in today's society, those trivial things are almost obsolete, now the requirements involve a much larger scaled commitment. To think, your child might just commit murder so he/she could be "included" in a gang of teens. Scary!

"Dealing with unpopularity" »

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When it comes to having a teenager one of the hardest things that you are going to have to do is communicate with your teenager. When it comes to communicating with your teen, it is one of the best skills you can develop to help develop a closer relationship with your teenager. When it comes to communicating with people we tend to think of communication as being one sided, where we express our feelings. However, good communication also involves listening as well. While it is not always easy to communicate with your teenagers, especially when they are refusing to talk to you, you are going to have to try a variety of techniques to enhance your communication.

Here are some things that you can do to help communicate with your teen.

"Ways to communicate clearly with your teen" »

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When you talk to your teen, you often wonder how to tell if they are really listening. All too often our teens send out the message that they do not want to hear what we parents have to say because they simple already know it all. Most of the time that is just an act that your teen is putting on, mostly because they are too embarrassed to talk to you about certain subjects. Other times it is in response to the fact that they do not want to listen to what you have to say because they are upset with you or something that you did. How can we effectively talk to our teens and ensure that they are listening to us?

"Talking to your teen and knowing that they are listening" »

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Talking to your teen about anything is often a rather difficult task. However, talking to your teen about sex, while that is tough in general, can be made harder because certain things might go wrong in the talk. Before you begin talking to your teen about sex you are going to have to come to terms with the fact that the conversation is going to be tough to have, but it still needs to be done. The second thing that you need to do is to learn about what can go wrong and what you can do to stop things from going wrong.

"Making talking to your teen about sex easier" »

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When trying to find information on talking to your teen most people are looking for information on what not to do. Something else that you are going to need to know about to improve your communications with your teen is what you should be doing when talking to your teen, and how to ensure that you are having a respectful conversation with your teen.

Here are five signs that you can look for to ensure that you are having a respectful conversation with your teen.

"Are you having a respectful conversation with your teen" »

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Every parent wants to have a good relationship with their son or daughter. But for many parents this good relationship becomes harder to attain once their child enters their teenage years. Most of us remember our teenage years as being a time when we were confused about our place in life or we were trying to figure out where we wanted to be in the next few years. All the while there were hormones to deal with, gossip to manage, relationships to foster, and school work to do. No wonder it is hard to get along with your teen, they have a lot to have to deal with and sometimes they themselves don't even know what they want, how on earth are you supposed to figure out what they want.

Parent first, friend second

Many parents work so hard to be friends with their teens that they neglect their responsibilities as a parent. Sure it is important to have a good relationship with your teen, but you cannot have that good relationship if you are abandoning your responsibilities as a parent. A teen is in desperate need of structure and boundaries. Parents should handle tough situations with love and understanding. There are so many temptations and opportunity for experimentation when your child is a teen. You cannot neglect your responsibility to teach your child the differences between right and wrong. By protecting them from the danger and emotional pain of bad decisions, you are being the kind of friend that they need most, even though your teen may not see things this way.

"Tips for getting along with your teenage son or daughter" »

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