The thing that you need to think about when talking to your friends is that you need to do so in a calm and collective manner. If you approach your friend and end up yelling at them or making accusations chances are the situation is going to get even more out of control. By approaching them calmly, you will be able to better succeed in talking through your feelings and get the hurt feelings resolved.

The first thing that you are going to have to do is to figure out what your friend did that hurt you so much. Many times, it is something simple or it is something that is completely stupid that we end up getting upset about. Moreover, many times our friends don't even realize that their actions have actually caused us pain, but there are times that they do it intentionally to hurt us because they no longer wish to be friends.

Once you have figured out what happened to cause you so much pain you are going to need to try to find out why they did it. The easiest method to use to find out why they did what they did is to approach your friend and ask them why they didn't ask you to come along or include you in what they were doing. Most of the time there is a simple explanation, such as they did not think that you would enjoy what they were doing. Of course, if they did it intentionally you are not going to be able to talk to them about why they did it because they did it to end the friendship. If this is the case, you are going to need to do something else to get over the pain of being shunned.

If your friend is not going to talk to you anymore, there is no way that you can make up with them and get over being shunned. You are just going to have to move forward with your life. You are going to need to start forgetting about that friend, and all that they have done to you. This does not mean that you have to destroy anything they ever gave you or be rude to them when you see them; you just have to simply move forward.

If you see that person on the street you are going to need to be pleasant to them, this will actually make you out to be the better person. This doesn't mean that you have to be overly sweet and fake towards that person but all you need to do is simply acknowledge them and then continue with what you were doing. It doesn't matter if they respond back to you or just ignore you, by being the better person you are going on with your life and the pain of seeing them will soon disappear.

If you are able to talk to your friend about what they have done to you and how they have hurt your feelings, you will need to take the steps required to repair that broken relationship. The biggest step to repairing that relationship is to talk to them about how you felt. You are also going to need to show each other that you have changed and that the old behavior that caused the problems is gone.