While you probably won't be able to stop your kids from fighting forever, you can help to reduce the sibling rivalry in your home in a variety of ways. The following are some ways to avoid sibling rivalries:

Don't play favorites.
Most parents will agree that they do not have a "favorite" child, but many times, there is a particular child in the house who is a little better behaved, more help around the house, or has a more agreeable personality. Regardless of the reason, it's important that parents never show favoritism among their children. Children can easily pick up on this, and it's one way that sibling rivalry begins.

Don't compare siblings.
It is never a good idea to compare your children to each other in an attempt to get them to behave better or try harder at something. While it may seem motivational at the time, saying things like, "Why can't you get good grades like your sister?" or "I never have to remind your brother to do his chores; why can't you be like that?" is counterproductive and only serves to create a breeding ground for insecurity and sibling rivalry.

Have alone time with each child when possible.
Even if you have to schedule it, make sure you spend time alone with each of your children each day. This could be running an errand together, reading a story, or helping with homework without the distraction or company of the other siblings. This will help to strengthen your relationship with each child.

Notice them when they are getting along.
Positive reinforcement goes a long way with children, so make sure you notice and praise them when they are getting along. For example, point out when they're getting along and tell them you appreciate it. Or, if one child shares a toy with another, praise him for his sharing.

Don't take sides in an argument.
When your kids fight, instead of trying to determine who the instigator is and who is the victim, don't take sides. Let your kids know that when it comes to fighting, it takes two to tango. Taking sides also encourages tattling in children as well as sibling rivalries.

Let younger kids help.
If sibling rivalry in the home is the result of the introduction of a new sibling, you can help avoid sibling rivalries by giving your older child special attention and allowing him or her to "help" with the new baby, whether it's bringing you diapers or letting him or her hold the baby. This will not only help to prevent sibling rivalry, but it will also set a foundation for a close friendship later in life between siblings.

If you have more than one child in your home, chances are good there will be some form of sibling rivalry sooner or later. The above tips will help you to avoid sibling rivalry.