Child molestation and child rape is on the rise, I can hardly watch the news without seeing the pictures of convicted predators, and many are our children's schoolteachers, our neighbors, and our co-workers.

Other children who have been victims of sexual abuse will almost often act out, harming other innocent children in a very vicious cycle. These sexual acts are devastating and extremely psychologically damaging.

Research has shown that children who are educated about sexual boundaries and limitations are less likely to be promiscuous at an older age. I understand that many parents choose not to talk with their young children about sex. They worry that they will lose their innocence, or become experimental with other children. Many parents also believe that they will scare their child if they explain to them the dangers of being molested.

Understandably this topic of sex is a difficult one and must be handled in a very cautious manner. Educating your child about sex without having the talk may seem like your skirting around the real issues, but there are a few points that are vital to having successful and informative conversations.

First you want to set boundaries and limits with your child regarding the television shows and movies they watch. In this day and age we are fortunate enough to have the option of blocking out those TV stations that we feel are not suitable for our children. Still you want to ensure that your child understands what is appropriate and what is not. As their parent you need to set a good example and practice what you preach, your child will not take you seriously if you choose to watch something that they cannot.

Second instilling the morals and values in their early childhood will resonate with them for their entire life. Moral context that you choose to teach them is crucial to how they will view sex. Of course there are boundaries and limits associated with sex you as the parent need to be open and honest with what is appropriate and inappropriate.

Third if direct questions are asked about any sexual subjects they should be answered honestly but age appropriately. If questions are ignored or dismissed your children will most likely seek answers from their friends. Many times sex is seen as taboo and can made to be secretive. This should not happen children should understand that sex is a healthy part of life, but yet this needs to be taught within your own personal boundaries.

Being a role model for your child is important in all aspects of life. By not avoiding the topic of sex you will teach your child valuable lessons that they will use and expand upon in their own lives. As a parent setting that foundation and relationship is so very important and beneficial. Communication is key and attitude plays a huge part when talking to your children. There is nothing to fear about being informative in other areas of your child's life. You have to ease into the subject of sex and remember that it is a continuing process.