How to keep the romance alive with acting like a horny teenager
We all find a time in our relationships when we have been together for a long time and the romance stats to dwindle. What can you do to keep the romance in your relationship alive without acting like a horny teenager? The following is how to keep the romance alive while keeping it appropriate for your relationship:
First you have to start with the simple stuff. When you were dating you probably touched as much as you could. You likely held hands every instant you were together, made out until late hours of the night, and could not keep your hands off each other. So, if you want to rekindle the romance, it does not mean you need to act like that again, but it does mean that you should hold hands again, like when you are driving together, kiss more passionately when you say good bye, and kiss one another occasionally without having sex afterward. It is these times that lead to romance and rekindled love.
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Second you have to take time for one another. It is important to spend quality one on one time together. When you had more romance in your life were you always talking about the stress of work, the financial problems you have, the things that need to be done? No, you probably talked about goals, dreams, and all sorts of fun things. So, to keep the romance alive without acting like a horny teenager you have to set up a date night or time to spend with just each other. Do not let the normalcy of life, and the stress of reality stop you from spending time together that is fun and therapeutic for the romantic side of your relationship.
Third you need to be the kind of person that you want your partner to be. You have to realize that you are not the only one who probably misses the intimacy you used to share. So, if there are things you miss, start to implement them. Whisper in your partner's ear, kiss their neck, pinch their butt when they aren't expecting it, leave love notes in their car, or on their voicemail. It is up to you to do things that you want to your partner first and foremost.
If you want to have a romantic relationship with your partner without looking like a horny teen you have to keep it private. If you are publicly displaying your actions and you feel like that some how validates them, then you are acting just like a horny teen. However, if you want to spend time together and show affection in private, and rekindle the flame within the sanctity of your own home and without the public attention, it would be wise. So, spark the flame of romance, go on dates, make out, hold each other's hands, have a good time, and do it at home so you do not look like a horny teen but like a person in love. Speak kindly about your spouse, leave love notes, and make sure that you let everyone know how much your love her, but do it with words, not public affection.
Keeping the romance alive takes some time, it takes working towards having some more affection, and not forced. It takes making time for each other and not letting the little things in life get your focus off of your love. You do not have to act twitter pated, but you should express your love regularly in many ways.
