How to recognize Mr. Wrong

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If you are interested in a guy one thing that you might be wondering is where you stand with him. The reason for this is that sometimes men can be rather elusive when it comes to telling a woman how they feel, for no particular reason. Men like this seem to enjoy leaving woman feeling confused and frustrated; they have no problem making you wonder what is going on with them.

What you need to do is learn the signs to look for that will warn you about his behavior. You want to look for any signs that show he is not that into you or that he is more interested in playing games than being in a serious relationship. Learning to look for these signs can help you spot Mr. Wrong before things get out of control, which will also help make it easier to find Mr. Right.


One sign that you want to look out for is that he is avoiding eye contact. In addition to eye contact, you will also want to look at his body language to see what that is saying. If he is not interested in you he will sit with his body turned away from you and most likely have his arms folded tightly over his chest. Another physical sign to watch for is that he does not get involved in conversations with you, he tries his best to avoid any serious conversations, and he will never volunteer any information about himself. The reason that he does all of this stuff is because he is trying to keep his distance from you, and by keeping quiet there is nothing for you to find out.

In addition to the physical signs, there will also be emotional signs that tell you he is not interested in you or getting involved in a serious relationship. For example, if you have been dating somebody for at least six months and they have not told you that they love you or refuses to talk about how they feel you need to move on because they are not that interested in you. After six months of dating your boyfriend should know how they feel about you and if there is a future in your relationship, after six months goes by if he is into you he will want you to know how he feels.

Another thing to watch out for is a guy that is constantly ignoring your or acting disrespectful towards you. If a guy is behaving that way, chances are they are insecure with themselves and are trying to make themselves look better by putting you down. Even if he is telling you that he loves you, you will want to get away from the relationship as soon as possible so that you are not wasting your time. You want to instead find a guy that is going to shower you with affection and make you a large focus of their world.

You also need to watch out for the guys who are not interested in going out in public with you. If he is constantly saying no about going out on dates then it is time for you to move onto to somebody else. Sure, the first time that they turn you down it could be a coincidence, so there is no cause for concern at that point. What you need to watch out for is the guy who always says no, he comes up with numerous excuses as to why he can't go out to dinner or the movies. There is no way that a person is that busy, so chances are he is not interested in you. If he were interested, he would be taking a rain check or making an offer on his own to see you.


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