How to tell if she is interested in you
In relationships it is usually left up to the guy to show the woman that they are interested in them, this goes back a long way because it was not considered lady like to be forward with a man. Luckily, times are changing, so some women will take the initiative and show a guy that they are interested. If you are one of those lucky guys who gets a girl coming after him you will need to know what signs to look for to see if she is interested.
Here are some of the more common signs to look for to determine if she is interested in you.
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Number one: Interest
Some women will show a small amount of interest in you, they will smile or pay close attention when you talk, but that is about it. Once they have shown this small amount of interest they will sit back and expect you to finish what they have started. This is because the women are afraid of being rejected, so rather than go forward they tend to hang back. You will also find women who show a lot of interest in you and not expect you to take the lead, such as constantly bumping into you at a club. Doing this means, they are trying to get your attention because they are interested in you.
Number two: Going home with you
Just because a girl does not want to go home with you after a night out does not mean that she isn't interested in you. Even if she goes home to your house you should still be able to tell if she is interested in getting to know you further by her actions, chances are she enjoyed what happened, but wants to take things slow. The best thing you can do here is give her your number and tell her to call you. This way you can find out just how much she is interested in you.
Number three: Asking questions
This usually happens when you run into somebody at a certain location. Even though you run into her at a specific location, you know that later on in the evening you will be in two different locations so the chances of your paths crossing again are slim to none. If she is interested in you, chances are she is going to ask where you are heading next or if you might be coming back to the area in the near future. She is doing this because she wants to make sure that you guys meet again, the sooner the better.
Number four: Introduction
Another sure fire way to figure out if she is interested in you is if she decides to introduce you to her friends. If she wants to introduce you to her friends that are a great sign that she is interested, buts he wants to find out what other people think about you or if you are interested in her. This is no different than you asking your friends if they think he is interested in you when you think she is flirting with you.
Number five: Information
Most women do not volunteer too much information about themselves when they first meet somebody because they are protecting themselves. If you are talking to somebody who is interested in you, chances are you will find them giving your personal information that they would not normally share with other people. You need to take this as a good sign that she is interested and make your move soon. This is especially true if she keeps trying to get the conversation started after it has died off.
