I'm in a sexless marriage, how can I change that?
If you are in a sexless marriage and what to change it, first get at the root of the problem. Why is your marriage sexless? Ask yourself questions in the following five areas to determine why your marriage is sexless, or at least what some of the factors contributing to that are.
First, what biological problems might be impacting you, your partner, and thus your relationship?
Second, what relationship problems might be getting in the way of enjoying sex together?
Third, what particular cultural issues about "right" and "wrong" might be blocking you?
Fourth, what personal issues, what struggles with the way you think or feel, are keeping you stuck?
Fifth, what spiritual and/or energetic issues might be sapping you from the ability to relax and free-fall into a relationship of bliss?
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Now determine who it is that is lacking sexual desire:
Is it you?
Your spouse?
Or Both?
Yes, your relationship can be better if you take the time to work with our tools and resources.
- Make yourself smarter.
- Practice, practice, practice (truth be told, the more you have sex, the greater your desire will become, it may take a few months of pleasure-less sex before you start wanting sex, but try!)
- Follow the Step-by-Step coaching
- Gain serious confidence
- Talk with each other about the material we have developed
- Manage your own anxiety
- Talk more openly and honestly than you ever imagined possible
- Keep the light on and look into each others eyes at that special moment
- Do what builds relationships, and stop doing what destroys relationships
- How many different skills have you learned in your lifetime?
- Did you learn to type?
- To cook?
- To manage money?
- To travel without getting lost?
- To swim, or play a sport?
- Did you ever learn how to sing or play a musical instrument?
- What job-specific skills have you learned?
You get the point.
Talk to a doctor!
