Soulmate

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A lot of people are turning to the internet in order to find their one true love or soul mate. The idea of a soul mate is that there is one person out there that completes you and makes your life whole. There are a lot of sites out there that claim to have the matching technology, and database to help you find the person that is right for you. So, let's take a look at one that calls itself Soulmate.com.

Soulmate.com is an online dating site that claims to offer more than generic descriptions, rather a refreshing approach to online dating. It does what it can to cut the crap and focus on who people are and what they are about so that you can find the people that are right for you.

The way to use the site is pretty simple, you start by registering, where you fill out on online profile, which is similar to any other online profile. Then you search the database and look at other people's profiles, and you contact the ones you want to connect with.

This site offers direct searching, member videos, a chat center, a downloadable chat application that allows you to contact members even when you are not on the site, a call center, psychological advice and more. It offers many useful features to help you sort potential dates, etc. which will be discussed below.

The idea is to use the site as a tool to make connections and to find romance, dates, friends, pen pals, activity partners and marriage partners. The site very much encourages you to be yourself and post normal photos, etc. so that you only attract people who would be attracted to you normally, and so that you can find your soulmate. A lot of dating sites get a bad rap because it is so easy to be fake on them. This site promotes being yourself to make truer connections.

Who can join?

Soulmate.com is not a specified dating site for specific race, gender, age, or religion, anyone can join in and make contact. In addition to that, no matter what your membership level you can view the entire database of members, and contact them.



Helpful Resources:

FAQ of Soulmate.com
This is the link for the frequently asked questions page about the site Soulmate.com. It answers questions and helps you better understand how to use the site to find your special someone, or soul mate.

A User's Guide Soulmate.com
This link is a guide to using the Soulmate.com site in order to get the best use out of it. It explains the various site features, and how to best use them for your particular goals and desires.

Free Directory for Online Dating
This is a free directory and review guide for online dating sites. It offers tips for finding the sites best suited to matching you to your potential soul mate, and gives reviews of the most popular dating sites.

The Breakdown on Soulmate Finding
Review site that breaks down the best sites for finding your soulmate based on specific criteria such as race, gender, age, religion, and more. It is easy to use and understand as it offers easy links and tabs.

Which Dating Site's Best?
Online dating sites review to help you find a date or a soulmate. This site offers an overview of the top online dating sites, as well as some of the lesser known dating sites, and helps you determine which site is best for you.

Psychic Love Readings
This is a site that offers psychic love readings in order to help you find your soul mate. It offers astrological and psychic help for finding the person that you are meant to be with in this life.

eHarmony
This is a dating website that makes claim of being able to help match you to the person that you will deem as your soul mate. It is a popular site with many great features and a compatibility matching system.


Test Your Chemistry
This is a popular dating website that is designed to help members find and connect with other members in a romantic way that may eventually lead to long term relationships and possible soul mate connections.

The Wikipedia Review: Soulmate
This is the Wikipedia description of what a soul mate is, where the term came from, the myth surrounding it, as well as the common and popular belief about soul mates and romantic connections.

The Soulmate Myth
Discusses the myth about soul mates, and how it affects marriages. It is an article that explores all aspects of the soulmate from the finding of one to the challenges you face when married to one, as well as what it feels like to have found your soulmate.





How do you contact members?

Basically once you have a membership you can view and contact online members, or simply send them a message to contact you when they are back online. The site offers accurate searching and interactive matching to make finding the people you are looking for easier. It also offers a safe community environment for chat, etc. in order to make it a more comfortable and secure place to hang out, have fun and meet other people.

How secure is the site?
Members of the site are screened, to verify authenticity. A valid e-mail address is required in order to become a member of this site. You can't activate your membership without one. While all services are confidential and your privacy is important, they do not do extensive background checks on members, so you still need to exercise precaution.

Can I visit the site without joining?

It is possible to visit the site without joining it, but your interaction will be limited. The site works on a membership system, so while guests are free to browse the profiles of members, in order to contact them they have to register with a valid email address. You have to be a member in order to create a "Hotlist" and use "SuperMatch Wizard" or the "EarlyBird" e-mail match service.

Are there different levels of membership?

Many sites offer great features but you can only use them if you pay a high premium. Soulmate.com is really no exception, as there are four types of membership and each offer a little more access and ease to the process of online dating.

The four membership levels are:

  • Trial membership: This is a membership that is free, but you do have to sign up and provide information and a valid email address. With this membership you can try out the system, and see how our site works for you. You get to use their search functions, browse other members' profiles, send messages and cards as well as use the HotList facility and try out different components of our SuperMatch system. However, it is a trial basis, so to continue use you would have to upgrade your membership after the trial period ends.
  • Silver Membership: With this membership you get to send an unlimited number of e-mails, read and reply to your messages, listen to voice messages, view video and members' personal descriptions, view full lists of New members, EarlyBird matches, Birthdays, and Online members, and if you need support you are guaranteed a reply from the Support Team within 36 hours. In addition to that you get to keep your e-mails in the provided Mailbox for 120 days, and can search using their search functions including: StarMatch, SoulMatch, SelectMatch, and SensualMatch.
  • Gold Membership: With this membership you get everything you get with the Silver membership, but you can also use the SuperMatch search facility, chat using Chatterbox (their downloadable chat system), and call using the call center for low rates. You also get 5 Mb of disc space for additional videos, pictures, etc. for your Media Library, which means you get a better profile.
  • Platinum membership: With this you get everything offered with other levels of membership, but get fast Support Team replies (24 hours instead of 36), get even lower rates for the Call Center, and you get an extra 15Mb of disc space for your Media Library. You also get to appear on a featured members list, get priority and highlighting in search listing, your email is highlighted, you get more personalize support, and you can ask the online psychologist for advice. In addition to that you get your messages translated for free.


The site has a no refund policy. So, if you are not sure if it is right for you, it is a good idea to start out with a trial membership.


The site features mentioned in the membership levels are explained below:

EarlyBird matches:

The EarlyBird matches is a service that allows you, as a web-site member to describe the type of person you are looking for. Then, when new members join the site, the site will then notify you via e-mail of any that match your preferences. So, this means you do not have to browse the site every day to see if anyone new has joined that you might like. If they fit your criteria you will be notified.

Super Match Wizard:

SuperMatch Wizard is a feature on the web-sites that helps users find the ideal date by combining several types of matching to help ensure you find people you click with and like. You will complete a form that provides the site with relevant information about you and what you are looking for in your partner. Then, the Super Match Wizard helps you find people that match you psychologically, sexually, that share the same interests, or that share your star sign. Or you can set it so you only get matched with people that fit all areas.

One of the cool things about Soulmate.com is that they want to help you find people you best click with and so they have software designed to match you with different types based on your personal preferences. The four Match types are:

Soul Match

The Soul Match test is a questionnaire designed by psychologists to distinguish between twelve different character types. Research has shown that each personality type has different traits, strengths and weaknesses and many people find they fit into one of these twelve very accurately. So, you take this test to be matched with people who fit your personality type.

Star Match

This is a matching system that is based around the Zodiac and uses the idea that astrologers watch the stars, and they can affect personality. This matching system uses the time of year when the sun's orbit crosses the Zodiac sign relevant to you, and distinguishes between the characteristics and personality traits of each Zodiac sign. So, in other words, the matching system uses this questionnaire to help you discover how the stars might affect your love-life.

Select Match

This is the most popular, and of course most important matching criteria as it is a questionnaire based around your own interest and pastimes. It is also very much specific to what it is you want in a partner, and what you require (referred to as your vital statistics). You fill in your height, marital status, religion, etc. and what it is you want in a partner, and they help you find someone that matches your interests, and whose interests you match as well.

Sensual Match

This is one of the reasons soulmate.com is unique from other dating sites. No other site matches you to others based around your sex-drive and sensuality. This matching system was designed to match those members who have a similar libido.

In addition to matching software, the site provides some useful tools to help you keep things organized and straight.

The "Hot List"

This is a feature that allows you to add member profiles to your HotList. In other words, you add members you are interested in to this list so you do not have to try and find them again. Then it keeps track of the last time you contact them.

The "Block List"

If you find there are members you are not interested in, you can block them by adding them to your "Block List", which means you will not receive notification of emails, cards, etc. from this person. It helps you limit contact with users you are not interested in.

New Members list

This is a list that allows you to see who is new, and lets you contact them while they are still new and actively using the site.

Online members" list

This is a list that lets you see which members are currently logged in, or online so you can chat, or call them.

The many useful features of this site allow you to date online and potentially find your soul mate. It offers up to date technology, security, privacy, etc. which means that you can feel good using the site, and hopefully find the special person you are looking for.

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