Tips for girls on flirting with guys

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If you have spotted a guy that makes your heart skip a beat the next thing that you need to do is grab his attention. The best thing that you can do to grab a guy's attention is to begin flirting with him. In order for the flirting to be effective you are going to need to learn the best techniques for flirting with guys.

If you are a girl here are some tips that you can follow to flirt with a guy.


Tip one:

You need to pay close attention to your physical appearance. This does not mean that you need to dress provocatively, if that is what you prefer that is okay to do as well. The best way that you can dress is to wear something that looks elegant, but you also want to make sure that it is comfortable. You do not need to have expensive clothes to look good; you just need to ensure that you have clean and nice appearing clothes. In addition to wearing nice clothes you also need to make sure that you shower yourself regularly. You also need to pay close attention to your hygiene, nobody will want to get close to you if you stink or haven't brushed your teeth in a few weeks.

Tip two:

Make sure that you do not congregate in a group of friends because this can be intimidating for a guy. Most guys will not approach you if you are in a large group because they do not want to be rejected by you in front of a large group. Even if they are not afraid of rejection they might think that you are unapproachable when you are in a large group. To prevent this you want to try and get off by yourself when you spot a guy that you are interested in so that they can easily approach you if they are interested. If you want to get his attention the best thing to do when you break off from your friends is to get as close to him as possible without violating any personal space.

Tip three:

When you are acting flirty you want to make sure that you are doing it correctly, otherwise the guy might just think you are weird. Here are some things that you can do to act flirty with a guy you like:

  • Flipping or twirling your hair - all you need to do is flip your hair over your shoulder or you can twist it and untwist to grab a guys attention when you are talking to them
  • Eye contact - this is your best tool when flirting because you can use it to give a guy a guy a look to let him know you are interested. For example, walk by a guy and give him a two to three second stare and SLOWLY look away, smiling as you look away.
  • Soft giggle and a smile - guys have voted that the best thing a girl can wear is a smile and a laugh. To ensure that they can get you through rough or awkward situations you will need to practice your smile and laugh until it sounds natural.


Tip four:

If nothing else is working the best thing that you can do is to get closer to him and get the conversation started. If you are going to take the initiative to start the conversation you need to make sure that you are not too obvious about the fact that you like him. You want to have a casual conversation and then use your flirting actions to get the message across.


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