Understand where your toddler is coming from
While the parents, grandparents, and older siblings will probably be excited and happy over the arrival of a new baby, a toddler is more likely to have a difficult time adjusting. A toddler is more likely to become confused by a new baby and not understand why the baby is there or how long the baby will be staying.

In addition, there is likely to be some jealousy involved, and parents should understand this is very normal. Your toddler is used to being the baby of the family and the attention that comes with that territory. He or she may feel overshadowed by the baby and jealous of all the attention that is required to care for a new baby.

Understanding what your toddler is dealing with and the feelings he or she may be experiencing will allow you to better help them with the adjustment of a new baby to the house.

Give your toddler extra attention
Of course, a new baby will take up the majority of your time. Even though your toddler will be somewhat prepared for the arrival of a new baby, he or she will still need plenty of extra attention and reassurance from you.

This is particularly important given the fact that many people will be over to visit the baby, many of whom will be bringing gifts. Many parents have found that a good way to help their toddler to not feel overlooked is to have a few presents wrapped and set aside to bring out when they see how many presents the baby is getting. Some parents even give a gift to their toddler "from" the baby, which can help put your toddler at ease. These need not be expensive gifts; crayons or a new book are good ideas.

Even when caring for your baby, you can still spend time with your toddler. For example, when feeding the baby, allow your toddler to sit beside you and look at a book with him or her.

Let your toddler help
A great way to help your toddler adjust to life with a new baby is to allow him or her to "help" with the new baby. This can include having your toddler bring you diapers, or helping in other little ways.

In addition, many times, the baby will be off limits to the child. Instead of scolding your toddler if he is too noise or rambunctious around the baby, supervise and let him hold or touch the baby. This will help to develop a bond between the two.

The introduction of a new baby into the house is a big adjustment for everyone. This is particularly true for toddlers, who often don't know how to react to a new baby. However, the above tips will help your toddler adjust to a new baby.