• Express your love daily- If you want your relationship to survive and revive, you have to begin saying I Love You as often as possible. Verbal affirmation of love is huge. If you let your partner feel the love again, it will not take long before they start expressing love back to you, and that will spark emotion and affection. You will literally start to feel more love the more often you express it.
• Appreciate and show gratitude for your partner- There may be times that you hate your partner more than loving them. However, that does not mean that there aren't things you love about them. So, take a minute to make a list, no matter how short, of what you love about them. Do you like the way they dress? Do you like the way they drive? Do you like the way they read quickly? It really does not matter what it is, you need to figure out the smallest thing you like about your partner and appreciate them for that. Then show your gratitude, give them the list, or express it in words. This has a multiplier effect. When we focus on everything that is wrong, we only find wrong. However, when we like a person, we ignore all wrongs and notice only the good points. So, look for the good and you will find more of it, and this will help to renew your relationship.
• Say thanks, it is courtesy, and it is important- People like to be recognized for their good deeds, and everyone needs verbal praise. A thank you gives people both. If you want to renew and revive your relationship, stop complaining and begin thanking your partner. If you can say thanks when your partner does little things for you, like gets you a napkin at dinner, or a glass of water, they will be more inclined to do more for you. Find a reason to say -Thank you, and it will bring immediate change to your relationship. These are changes you will notice.
• Discuss their problems, work, and life- If you get selfish, and focus on yourself, always talk about your day, your work, your problems, your partner is going to start turning to friends when they want to talk, not to you. This makes conversation harder. It means your relationship weakens. So, talk with your partners about their day, work, and problems. Become a genuine friend and find out what is troubling them. This shows that you are concerned, and they are loved. When you listen to their problems, and you genuinely want to help them overcome them, you grow a bond, and become closer. This is a big part of renewing a relationship.

If you want to renew your relationship, take the necessary steps to grow closer once again. Think back to the good days, and start again. What did you do then that you do not do now? Do it!