Tip one:
The first thing that you need to do in order to repair a broken relationship is to take responsibility for changing. This doesn't mean that you are taking the blame for the relationship breaking up or placing the blame on the other party because in order to repair the broken relationship you are not going to be able to play the blame game, that actually needs to stay out of it. If you can't get past blaming each other than there is no hope in repairing the relationship. But when taking responsibility for changing is basically accepting the fact that you have changed or that you can change and then go out and make those changes.

Tip two:
Now that you have made the changes to yourself that you think are the right changes you are going to basically need to sell yourself to your ex. This sounds really bad, but if you think about it that is what you did when you were single and got together with them in the first place. Basically what you are going to want to do is show your ex how you have changed and how it is actually for the better. You can tell them that you have changed all you want, but actions actually speak a lot louder than words. Basically what you are going to want to show your ex is what they are going to be getting by getting into a relationship with you again.

Tip three:
Something else that you need to think about before repairing a broken relationship is if repairing it is going to be worth it. What you want to watch out for is trying to repair a broken relationship that is not going to allow you to be true to yourself, basically a relationship that is going to change you and not allow you to be happy with yourself. These kinds of relationships are actually really unhealthy and are never worth repairing because most likely they will just fall apart again causing even more hurt and pain then the first time around. Basically when you are going to fix the relationship the changes you make have to be changes that you are comfortable with doing and keeping for the rest of your life. If you are not comfortable it is time for you to move on.

Tip four:
Finally if you are going to be repairing a broken relationship you actually have to put your whole heart and soul into repairing that relationship. If you go into it half heartedly you are not going to succed, which isn;pt fair to either you or your partner. So what you want to do is basically focus on your partner for a period of time and nobody else (even friends) so that you can determine if things are going to work out or not.

Tip five:
Something else that you are going to need to do is to communicate with your partner. This does not mean yell or scream at your partner but talk to them and let them know what is wrong and how it makes you feel. But the other thing that you need to do is to listen to what they have to say and be careful not to blame anybody. Chances are if you are unhappy they are too and if you work together you can probably solve the problem.