What girls dislike in boys

rejecting63314693.jpgWhile every person has a different view on what they want for their spouse, in general there are things men and women like and dislike in each other. The following is a look at some of the things women tend to dislike in men:

1. Dishonesty. A woman has enough insecurity to deal with, and having someone lie to her is not going to help her feel good about anything. So, be honest to them, and women will like you more. This does not mean that you have to tell them they look bad in a dress, but you do have to be honest.

2. Puts others down or is judgmental. A guy who puts others down, or is judgmental is not going to be attractive to a woman because she is constantly going to worry that he is judging her, or will put her down in front of others.

3. When he is shallow, and cares too much about his own looks or how a girl looks. A girl wants a guy to notice how she looks, but doesn't want him to care so much about it that if she has a bad hair day he will have second thoughts about her. He has to see more than her appearance or she is going to be turned off.

4. Macho image. Girls do not want to see a guy who is a macho man. No one wants to date someone who is so full of themselves that they can't see beyond their own nose.

5. Expects a girl to wait on him. We live in an equal world, and the fact is that women do not want to be treated like lesser beings, or expect to be waited on. If you treat a women like she is nothing more than a servant to fulfill your needs, she is not going to like you much.

6. Inconsistent behavior, nice one day, ignores you the next. No one, especially not a woman wants to be treated like they do not matter, or that their feelings are insignificant, and a man who gives her attention one day, and ignores her the next leaves her feeling that way.

7. Too physically aggressive. A guy who does not respect her wanting to go slow, or her wishes about physical encounters is going to be a big turn off to a woman. Women do not like being pressured toward sex, or other physical intimacy.

8. Takes a girl for granted, doesn't give her enough attention, open the door for her, etc. Women should be appreciated. They do not like feeling like a convenience, or of no real importance. Women want men to show them the courtesy of calling them, opening doors for them, and basically treating them like a lady. A man who is not a gentleman is not very attractive to most women.

9. He is overly crude. Women do not mind men being men to some extent, but she doesn't like to hear a lot of vulgar language, or hear the details about your bathroom experiences, etc.

10. When he has bad habits such as drinking and smoking. A woman may not mind a man who has a glass of wine with dinner, or a beer during a game, but they certainly do not appreciate a guy who gets drunk on a regular basis, or who smokes several packs a day.

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